Hi all,
I received a phone call today from a Mom of one of Nick's wrestling teammates (J.P.), Ann Newton. Ann had written something about Nick over the wrestling season she wanted to share with us and others. I was so touched just by the fact she would take the time and effort to do something like this and call me about it. She sent it to me and I read it. Pass the tissues please!!!!:) Wow! We are so touched and grateful for this. There were some cool pictures in the version she sent me but I can't get them to copy/paste into this message. If that changes, I'll add them later. Anyhow, I wanted to share the words she wrote. Here it is below:
By Ann Newton 2-11
Nick Hyndman is a senior on the Perrysburg High School wrestling team who has been an
incredible asset to the team for the past two years. Nick is an emotional leader and inspiration to
the team. More importunately he has changed the lives of his teammates, classmates, coaches,
parents and our community. Nick was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at a very young age, and
has endured obstacles and barriers his entire life. However, his unwavering determination and
relentless drive have allowed him to fulfill his dream of being a “team mate” at Perrysburg High
School.
As a wrestling parent, I have been asked numerous times; “This sport is so difficult, why would
you allow your sons do this……..to go thru this?” Simply stated; the wrestling is often
secondary, rather the “life lessons” associated with this mentally and physically demanding sport
are unparalleled compared to most sports . Nick’s journey has yet again unveiled the character and
magnified the personal attributes one must poses to wrestle. It has been an amazing journey and
we are so blessed to have witnessed Nick’s story as it has been written!
As Nick lead the team, walking on to the mat for introductions on “senior night”, I was
challenged to find a “dry – eye” in the gymnasium. He walked proudly……..leading his team
for Senior night, a very emotional and inspirational moment for our entire wrestling community.
Albeit inspiring, this moment was quickly eclipsed as we watched him interact with his team
mates. The mutual encouragement, enthusiasm, and respect were awe inspiring: “Slick Nick” is
part of this team. The typical commrodary associated with high school sports was evident not
only this night, but at practices and competitions through out the year as well.
Nick’s journey is best told through the following article’s, parent newsletters, and
correspondence from Nick’s parent’s and Nick’s facebook post and pictures.
Weekly Wrestling Newsletter – February 9, 2011
Regardless of how the season ends the team should be most proud of how they have grown as people, their
character, compassion & heart. Last year Nick Hyndman decided he wanted to go out for the wrestling team. From
the second he made it onto the mat, the boys have treated him as an equal. They encourage him, push him to work
hard, help him develop his wrestling skills, and they goof around & tease him like any other wrestler on the team.
To watch Nick walk out onto the mat, something he could not do a year & ½ ago, is inspiring and amazing. This is a
true testament to how great PHS wrestling is & how proud we should be of these boys.
Please Congratulate Nick Hyndman for his hard work and toughness! He is an inspiration to all of us! Nick has been
contacted by the Ohio High School Athletic Association to do an interview for their magazine. They are also making
arrangements for Nick & his family to go to the state tournament in Columbus (March 3-5) where Nick will be
recognized. Hopefully we will be sending some competitors down as well so Perrysburg will be well represented.
When high school wrestling is a distant memory for these athletes, they may not remember their record or # of pins,
but I am pretty sure they will remember Nick & the small part they played in is success!
Karen Fleming, PHS Wresting Parent Representative
Nick’s Parents Response to Newsletter
Hello everyone,
We would like to thank the coaches, the staff, and all of the team members for the kindness & support you've shown
to Nick the past 2 years. We will certainly remember this experience and so will Nick. We're not sure if you realize
how amazing this has been. We were told when Nick was an infant that he would most likely never walk, may not
talk, would most likely have cognitive delays due to brain damage he suffered from a medical issue after his birth
and the following diagnosis of cerebral palsy. We decided they didn't know for sure so we decided to get Nick all
the therapy and support we could and decided to let HIM show us what he COULD do. He started talking at age
three, reading at age three, he walked the first time at age 7, and he's gotten all A's and Bs in regular education
classes throughout his school career. We're getting ready to send him off to college next year and it all seems to have
flown by way too fast! The point is, he's done a lot of things we were told he wouldn't do BUT when he came to us
last year and told us he wanted to wrestle so he could play a sport for his high school with his peers, we thought,
"how is this going to work?" "Can he?" He played challenger baseball for 9 years, and lives and breathes sports, but
his dream was to play for his school. We thought "this may end up badly with Nick being hurt, his feelings and pride
being hurt". (UGH) Well, the coaches and staff have been open-minded and supportive from day 1 and the boys
have too. Nick knew he couldn't "win" a match probably but he could "win" by being out there, doing it, in spite of
being in pain daily (part of his CP and part wrestling work outs!). He's competitive with himself and sets goals. Last
year, he just wanted to make it through a whole match. He did. This year, he wanted to wrestle just one varsity
match as a senior. He did. Last year, he just stood up from the mat, and walked off the mat, no walker or wheelchair,
no one holding his arm, just by himself. Something he'd not done and it literally took our breath away. Literally and
in the best way. He's gotten so much stronger physically and emotionally as well. We are so proud of him and of all
of the boys. We are grateful for everyone's support and kindness. We'll never forget it! Even the kids in his classes
talk to him more since this all started last year and he gave a speech talking about his disability and he has friends
now. People actually look at him and talk to him, which they didn't do before. They TALK to him, which they didn't
do before. So, this whole experience has been so much more than a sport to Nick.
We just wanted you to know that.
Thank you!
Greg & Amy Hyndman, Nick's parents
Nick’s Facebook Posts
November 8, 2010 - Oh, I started to forget the joys of wrestling but that came back very quickly as I wrestled during
practice for the 1st time since February. Got 5 blisters on my hands, 3 mat burns and a sore midsection. lol. I love it
though, they are my battle scars. haha ;) I apologize to my teammates if it seemed like I wasn't giving 100% toward
the end, was just in pain and exhausted. Gotta get back into it and it'll get better.
November 10, 2010 - "I'm no longer going to complain, about being in pain, I have nothing to lose, just everything
to gain." ;)
November 13, 2010 - Am I getting caught up in winning a little bit? "When" I win one this season, it'll be the
greatest feeling ever. But I've began to lose that feeling that I had last season, the feeling "wow, I’ve been blessed to
be part of a real team." From now to the end, I will find a balance between doing what I have to get the win, and just
enjoying the fact that I've been graced to be a part of something real
November 18, 2010 - To my teammates, I'm sorry I keep missing, I want you to know if I can be there, I will. I gotta
learn to find the balance between pushing myself enough for you guys to see I'm doing best I can and pushing
myself to the point where I physically can't get up the next day. I'm gonna find it soon. I hate missing and from now
on, I'm gonna be there everyday I physically can. It's my last year and I want to go out right.
November 20, 2010 - Good 1st scrimmage today. Found out a scrimmage in wrestling isn't a match, but 2 hrs of
wrestling with guys and coaches from different schools. Good learning experience. Hard to do though. lol. Only
makes me stronger and better. :) Now back to practice Mon. to prepare for the next scrimmage at home next Sat. :)
November 21, 2010 - "Wrestling= 5-6 days a week, being sore and in pain 24 hours a day 7 days a week, and getting
better/stronger at least 1% everyday for roughly 100 days. Do the math."- Nick Hyndman ;)
November 24, 2010 - Had a good practice this morning and felt so good that I walked a mile with my dad after. :)
November 27, 2010 - Amazing scrimmage today at home. Never felt as confident and ready to just flat out wrestle
like today. lol. Stamina was probably best it's ever been and just had a blast! XD Now time to get ready for St. Johns
Tuesday. OHIO ST. v. Mich game, GO BUCKS!!! Awesome day today!!
December 6, 2010 - Now that I have my motivation, and the accomplishment is in sight, my determination kicks
into overdrive everyday starting today, from now till I hopefully achieve this accomplishment, my A game will be
brought everyday. XD
December 8, 2010 - Tomorrow is the beginning of what we've worked hard for this past month. 1st NLL dual meet
of the season at Bowling Green at 6. Time for me and my boys to go 1-0! Lets get it!! XD
December 16, 2010 - Meet at home against Rossford tonight. For family and friends who wanna see me, sorry, i'm
not wrestling due to illness, but still gonna be there to support my boys, time to go 2-0. Let's get it! XD
December 23, 2010 - Another good day lined up, actually going to get my license, practice at 1, then bowling with
my boys, then, idk, we'll see. haha :)
January 24, 2011 - Thursday will be my last home meet ever. Right now, it seems like it will be bittersweet. It's
against our rivals, Maumee, and it'll be senior night. Looking forward to going out there one last time in front of the
home crowd. Just gonna embrace every moment I spend with my team from now to the end.
January 27, 2011 - Senior night was amazing. We mauled Maumee 49-18. :) Proud of my team! I got to lead my
team out and wrestle during our awesome warm-up. But the best part was my family there to support me just like
they always have. :) I want to thank Perrysburg for giving me the opportunities that I have had and for the applauds
and compliments. Will never forget the memories at home. I have not one regret. Thanks everyone! :)
February 9, 2011 - Proud of my team once again for getting the W tonight. 47-15. :) Now Sat. is NLL's and I’m
confident in my guys so let's show then what we do. ;) Unfortunately, I’m done wrestling. But i will continue to
practice with and support the rest of the guys till the end. :) Team dinner tomorrow! :)
February 12, 2011 - Damn! It feels good to be a League Champion!! All the pain and the exhaustion, this is
what it was for! The ability to motivate one another to overcome all adversity as a team is the reason why we
are the best team in the leauge! Can't ever explain how proud I am to be a part of this team and how much
being on this team has changed my life! Can't ever thank everyone enough for allowing me to be a part of it!
:)
Blessings:)
Amy
Monday, February 21, 2011
Isabella's D.A.R.E. Graduation
Hi all,
Last Wednesday evening, 2/16/11, Isabella, who is in 5th grade, had her D.A.R.E. (www.dare.com/home/default.asp) graduation. For those of you who don't know, D.A.R.E. stands for Drug Awareness Resistance Education. It's a GREAT program. For Isabella's school, one student in each of the four 5th grade classes was picked to read their D.A.R.E. Essay at the graduation. Isabella's essay was picked and she did a GREAT job reading it. (really great, clear, articulate, wasn't nervous) We are really proud of her! Way to go Isabella!
Here is a copy of her essay below:
Isabella
Hyndman
#12
D.A.R.E Essay
Hi my name is Isabella Hyndman. I am a fifth grade student participating in the D.A.R.E program. The D.A.R.E program is a class that involves preventing the use of drugs and violence. The D.A.R.E program makes me feel confident that I will make the right choices about not using drugs or getting into violence. I feel that the D.A.R.E program has important lessons that will keep kids drug free. I have learned many things through the D.A.R.E program such as how to deal with peer pressure or just somebody pushing you into using drugs.
My knowledge about how to deal with drugs and violence has improved since starting in the D.A.R.E program. One thing I have learned is that when someone is trying to get you to try drugs you should just refuse, tell them what some of the bad things that can happen to you are, and get your friends out of the situation if you need to also. Another thing I have learned during the D.A.R.E program is how to handle peer pressure. A lot of times it depends on what kind of peer pressure it is. If it’s peer pressure from friends it might be better to just respond nicely when you say no. If it’s serious peer pressure from someone you don’t know as well you should still refuse but if that does not work you should tell an adult.
In the D.A.R.E program I have also learned about the nasty side affects that can come with taking certain drugs like tobacco or any kind of cigarette. First you might start to have yellow teeth or fingernails. Secondly you might have shortage of breathe or other really serious health problems. Then finally you will have bad breathe and may have more wrinkles. You should stay drug free for many reasons. For one thing it causes serious health problems and nasty side affects. Another important reason why you should stay drug free is because not only does it affect you but all of the people that are around you. An example of this would be when someone smokes they spread second hand smoke. My commitment to staying drug free is very important to me. The D.A.R.E program encourages me to just say no to drugs and help any other people who are in a peer pressure situation as well.
I think over all the D.A.R.E program is a great program that encourages people to stay away from drugs and violence.
I'll post some pics at a later time.
Blessings:)
Amy
Last Wednesday evening, 2/16/11, Isabella, who is in 5th grade, had her D.A.R.E. (www.dare.com/home/default.asp) graduation. For those of you who don't know, D.A.R.E. stands for Drug Awareness Resistance Education. It's a GREAT program. For Isabella's school, one student in each of the four 5th grade classes was picked to read their D.A.R.E. Essay at the graduation. Isabella's essay was picked and she did a GREAT job reading it. (really great, clear, articulate, wasn't nervous) We are really proud of her! Way to go Isabella!
Here is a copy of her essay below:
Isabella
Hyndman
#12
D.A.R.E Essay
Hi my name is Isabella Hyndman. I am a fifth grade student participating in the D.A.R.E program. The D.A.R.E program is a class that involves preventing the use of drugs and violence. The D.A.R.E program makes me feel confident that I will make the right choices about not using drugs or getting into violence. I feel that the D.A.R.E program has important lessons that will keep kids drug free. I have learned many things through the D.A.R.E program such as how to deal with peer pressure or just somebody pushing you into using drugs.
My knowledge about how to deal with drugs and violence has improved since starting in the D.A.R.E program. One thing I have learned is that when someone is trying to get you to try drugs you should just refuse, tell them what some of the bad things that can happen to you are, and get your friends out of the situation if you need to also. Another thing I have learned during the D.A.R.E program is how to handle peer pressure. A lot of times it depends on what kind of peer pressure it is. If it’s peer pressure from friends it might be better to just respond nicely when you say no. If it’s serious peer pressure from someone you don’t know as well you should still refuse but if that does not work you should tell an adult.
In the D.A.R.E program I have also learned about the nasty side affects that can come with taking certain drugs like tobacco or any kind of cigarette. First you might start to have yellow teeth or fingernails. Secondly you might have shortage of breathe or other really serious health problems. Then finally you will have bad breathe and may have more wrinkles. You should stay drug free for many reasons. For one thing it causes serious health problems and nasty side affects. Another important reason why you should stay drug free is because not only does it affect you but all of the people that are around you. An example of this would be when someone smokes they spread second hand smoke. My commitment to staying drug free is very important to me. The D.A.R.E program encourages me to just say no to drugs and help any other people who are in a peer pressure situation as well.
I think over all the D.A.R.E program is a great program that encourages people to stay away from drugs and violence.
I'll post some pics at a later time.
Blessings:)
Amy
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Hi all,
I have deactivated my Facebook account for now. I might do it again in the future but for now, I have to concentrate on other things.
Anyhow, since I did that, it erased all of the information I put on our Facebook group (which was created as a link to this blog):( (all of the hours I spent on it.....ugh-I wasn't thinking of that when I deactivated my account!) Well, it's done for now but we still have this blog:)
Nick's still on Facebook and I'll still be updating this blog as often as possible!
Blessings:)
Amy
I have deactivated my Facebook account for now. I might do it again in the future but for now, I have to concentrate on other things.
Anyhow, since I did that, it erased all of the information I put on our Facebook group (which was created as a link to this blog):( (all of the hours I spent on it.....ugh-I wasn't thinking of that when I deactivated my account!) Well, it's done for now but we still have this blog:)
Nick's still on Facebook and I'll still be updating this blog as often as possible!
Blessings:)
Amy
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Comments
Hi all,
Greg and I sent a thank you letter to Nick's wrestling coaches, staff, the team members/boys, and their parents for supporting Nick the past two years, etc. If you haven't had a chance, ready my previous post re: newsletter comments about Nick. Anyhow, so far, we received the following messages from a few parents of the boys we wanted to share.
Blessings:)
Amy
Here they are:
Hi Nick,
My name is Beth Ann Manning-Taube (Lucas Manning’s Mom). I wanted to say “thank you” to you for your constant commitment to wrestling. You see, there were several times that Lucas felt like quitting the wrestling team; he was discouraged with his progress at first (since this is his first year at it). But every time he spoke with me about it he brought up this guy named Nick and how he is the very foundation of the team’s spirit! I know that you inspired Lucas to continue wrestling and to push himself harder than ever. I wasn’t sure who “Nick” was until I went to a recent wrestling match at PHS. Now, I too understand what a strong individual you are and am sure you will continue to work hard and inspire others in your life.
God Bless,
Beth Ann
Thank you........................................... for allowing Nick to touch our lives. Nick's, determination, hard work and attitude have helped many of us to realign our perspectives.
Brian Newton
Greg and I sent a thank you letter to Nick's wrestling coaches, staff, the team members/boys, and their parents for supporting Nick the past two years, etc. If you haven't had a chance, ready my previous post re: newsletter comments about Nick. Anyhow, so far, we received the following messages from a few parents of the boys we wanted to share.
Blessings:)
Amy
Here they are:
Hi Nick,
My name is Beth Ann Manning-Taube (Lucas Manning’s Mom). I wanted to say “thank you” to you for your constant commitment to wrestling. You see, there were several times that Lucas felt like quitting the wrestling team; he was discouraged with his progress at first (since this is his first year at it). But every time he spoke with me about it he brought up this guy named Nick and how he is the very foundation of the team’s spirit! I know that you inspired Lucas to continue wrestling and to push himself harder than ever. I wasn’t sure who “Nick” was until I went to a recent wrestling match at PHS. Now, I too understand what a strong individual you are and am sure you will continue to work hard and inspire others in your life.
God Bless,
Beth Ann
Thank you........................................... for allowing Nick to touch our lives. Nick's, determination, hard work and attitude have helped many of us to realign our perspectives.
Brian Newton
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
PHS Wrestling Newsletter 2/9/11
Hi all,
I'm attaching the PHS Wrestling Newsletter we received today and comments from Coach Cotterman, Nick's coach this year about Nick and the team.
Blessings:)
Amy
Here it is:
Team,
In my opinion we have entered the most important week or our season! And with the weather last week, it has become even more important. This week will include our make-up dual against the Anthony Wayne Generals on Wednesday, our team dinner on Thursday, and the NLL Championships on Saturday at Rossford High School.
I want to congratulate the guys who participated at the Rossford Invitational Tournament. We filled 10 of the 14 weight classes and placed 2nd. Champions were Jamie Waltermeyer(119), Ryan Roth(130), Kadin Llewellyn(152), Luke Boff(171); 2nd place were Jake Fleming(140) and Tony Tomase(145); 3rd Alec Herhold(125); 5th Drew Shadler(130), Hunter Pachell(135), Hunter Tammarine(160); Andre Shephard(285). Congratulations guys! However, this will be the only time we take 2nd at Rossford!!!
Tonight, we will have a short practice after school with the bus leaving at 4:00pm. All wrestlers should attend. Weigh-ins starts at 5:00 with wrestling starting at 6:00p.m.
Thursday after practice we will get together for our team meal. This is a great way to just get the kids together before the league championships. It’s also great to see the kids bond outside of practice. This will start around 5:30-6:00p.m. We will need the food to be at the school between 5:00 and 5:15. Thank you to all for the donations & Leslie Roth for coordinating.
NLL Tournament Saturday, we will need the boys at the high school by 6:30am. Wrestling will start at 10:00am on Saturday. Please know that any team member may ride with us and support their teammates as this will be their Championship as well. The 14 who wrestle Saturday would not be where they are at without being pushed by their teammates every day. Also, we would not be where we are as a team if it were not for the entire team & without guys filling in when needed.
Regardless of how the season ends the team should be most proud of how they have grown as people, their character, compassion & heart. Last year Nick Hyndman decided he wanted to go out for the wrestling team. From the second he made it onto the mat, the boys have treated him as an equal. They encourage him, push him to work hard, help him develop his wrestling skills, and they goof around & tease him like any other wrestler on the team. To watch Nick walk out onto the mat, something he could not do a year & ½ ago, is inspiring and amazing. This is a true testament to how great PHS wrestling is & how proud we should be of these boys.
Please Congratulate Nick Hyndman for his hard work and toughness! He is an inspiration to all of us! Nick has been contacted by the Ohio High School Athletic Association to do an interview for their magazine. They are also making arrangements for Nick & his family to go to the state tournament in Columbus (March 3-5) where Nick will be recognized. Hopefully we will be sending some competitors down as well so Perrysburg will be well represented. When high school wrestling is a distant memory for these athletes, they may not remember their record or # of pins, but I am pretty sure they will remember Nick & the small part they played in is success!
Go Jackets!
Coach C & Staff
I'm attaching the PHS Wrestling Newsletter we received today and comments from Coach Cotterman, Nick's coach this year about Nick and the team.
Blessings:)
Amy
Here it is:
Team,
In my opinion we have entered the most important week or our season! And with the weather last week, it has become even more important. This week will include our make-up dual against the Anthony Wayne Generals on Wednesday, our team dinner on Thursday, and the NLL Championships on Saturday at Rossford High School.
I want to congratulate the guys who participated at the Rossford Invitational Tournament. We filled 10 of the 14 weight classes and placed 2nd. Champions were Jamie Waltermeyer(119), Ryan Roth(130), Kadin Llewellyn(152), Luke Boff(171); 2nd place were Jake Fleming(140) and Tony Tomase(145); 3rd Alec Herhold(125); 5th Drew Shadler(130), Hunter Pachell(135), Hunter Tammarine(160); Andre Shephard(285). Congratulations guys! However, this will be the only time we take 2nd at Rossford!!!
Tonight, we will have a short practice after school with the bus leaving at 4:00pm. All wrestlers should attend. Weigh-ins starts at 5:00 with wrestling starting at 6:00p.m.
Thursday after practice we will get together for our team meal. This is a great way to just get the kids together before the league championships. It’s also great to see the kids bond outside of practice. This will start around 5:30-6:00p.m. We will need the food to be at the school between 5:00 and 5:15. Thank you to all for the donations & Leslie Roth for coordinating.
NLL Tournament Saturday, we will need the boys at the high school by 6:30am. Wrestling will start at 10:00am on Saturday. Please know that any team member may ride with us and support their teammates as this will be their Championship as well. The 14 who wrestle Saturday would not be where they are at without being pushed by their teammates every day. Also, we would not be where we are as a team if it were not for the entire team & without guys filling in when needed.
Regardless of how the season ends the team should be most proud of how they have grown as people, their character, compassion & heart. Last year Nick Hyndman decided he wanted to go out for the wrestling team. From the second he made it onto the mat, the boys have treated him as an equal. They encourage him, push him to work hard, help him develop his wrestling skills, and they goof around & tease him like any other wrestler on the team. To watch Nick walk out onto the mat, something he could not do a year & ½ ago, is inspiring and amazing. This is a true testament to how great PHS wrestling is & how proud we should be of these boys.
Please Congratulate Nick Hyndman for his hard work and toughness! He is an inspiration to all of us! Nick has been contacted by the Ohio High School Athletic Association to do an interview for their magazine. They are also making arrangements for Nick & his family to go to the state tournament in Columbus (March 3-5) where Nick will be recognized. Hopefully we will be sending some competitors down as well so Perrysburg will be well represented. When high school wrestling is a distant memory for these athletes, they may not remember their record or # of pins, but I am pretty sure they will remember Nick & the small part they played in is success!
Go Jackets!
Coach C & Staff
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Team Hyndman=Cheese Heads
Hi all!
How about those Green Bay Packers? Yes! We are thrilled they won the Super Bowl! It was a great game actually, and Greg and Nick were really thrilled but Bella and I actually watched and enjoyed it too. (not just the commercials and half time, although they were great too!) We made lots of good food and the kids wanted pizza too so it was a nice night for the four of us to spend together. We are huge Glee fans too and we loved the Glee episode afterwards! ( I had to tape it for Bella because she fell asleep-she had a sleepover at her cousin Maddie's house the night before:) ) Team Hyndman=Cheese Heads!
Greg has been a Packers Fan since he was little through ups and downs, wins and losses. That is the mark of a TRUE fan, sticking with a team through all of it, not just the wins! So, by default of course, Nick became and is a huge Packers Fan as well. I am not really a football fan at all. If my kids played, I'd be at every game and cheering them on. So, I had my Nook Color (the best Christmas gift ever!) and was ready to eat, read, and watch the commercials, but was pleasantly surprised at what a good game it actually was. And, I realize what I really don't like about football is how some people ACT when they watch it. I am thankful that although Greg is a fan, he has always put our family above sports and only watches on occasion with Nick. He's always put us first. Bella, well, I'm not sure yet if she's a fan. I think she likes it because her Dad and brother love it BUT she really doesn't pay much attention to the game. I think at this point she just likes the hanging out together part. She's a lot like me though and would rather read a book or watch one of her shows, so most times, it's the guys that get excited. BUT, this was the SUPER BOWL and the GREEN BAY PACKERS so it became a family event and we had a great time!
Nick's still sick (it's been over a week now) and has a doctor appt. this afternoon. He went to school today because he was so stressed about missing anymore but he's feeling pretty blah! I'm working on finishing the FASFA form this week and am waiting to get our taxes done so I can complete it and apply for more scholarships for Nick. He only has about 3 1/2 months left until his graduation on May 29th! I can't believe it! (May 29th is also Greg's birthday!) We are taking a graduation trip with family in June and having Nick's 18th birthday and graduation party on Saturday August 20th. I think I wrote about that already but I'll probably be talking about it A LOT in the next few months.
I'll be writing some more about college progress and what Nick's ultimately decides, and I want to post some information I found about college for individuals with disabilities. Coming soon.......
Blessings:)
Amy
How about those Green Bay Packers? Yes! We are thrilled they won the Super Bowl! It was a great game actually, and Greg and Nick were really thrilled but Bella and I actually watched and enjoyed it too. (not just the commercials and half time, although they were great too!) We made lots of good food and the kids wanted pizza too so it was a nice night for the four of us to spend together. We are huge Glee fans too and we loved the Glee episode afterwards! ( I had to tape it for Bella because she fell asleep-she had a sleepover at her cousin Maddie's house the night before:) ) Team Hyndman=Cheese Heads!
Greg has been a Packers Fan since he was little through ups and downs, wins and losses. That is the mark of a TRUE fan, sticking with a team through all of it, not just the wins! So, by default of course, Nick became and is a huge Packers Fan as well. I am not really a football fan at all. If my kids played, I'd be at every game and cheering them on. So, I had my Nook Color (the best Christmas gift ever!) and was ready to eat, read, and watch the commercials, but was pleasantly surprised at what a good game it actually was. And, I realize what I really don't like about football is how some people ACT when they watch it. I am thankful that although Greg is a fan, he has always put our family above sports and only watches on occasion with Nick. He's always put us first. Bella, well, I'm not sure yet if she's a fan. I think she likes it because her Dad and brother love it BUT she really doesn't pay much attention to the game. I think at this point she just likes the hanging out together part. She's a lot like me though and would rather read a book or watch one of her shows, so most times, it's the guys that get excited. BUT, this was the SUPER BOWL and the GREEN BAY PACKERS so it became a family event and we had a great time!
Nick's still sick (it's been over a week now) and has a doctor appt. this afternoon. He went to school today because he was so stressed about missing anymore but he's feeling pretty blah! I'm working on finishing the FASFA form this week and am waiting to get our taxes done so I can complete it and apply for more scholarships for Nick. He only has about 3 1/2 months left until his graduation on May 29th! I can't believe it! (May 29th is also Greg's birthday!) We are taking a graduation trip with family in June and having Nick's 18th birthday and graduation party on Saturday August 20th. I think I wrote about that already but I'll probably be talking about it A LOT in the next few months.
I'll be writing some more about college progress and what Nick's ultimately decides, and I want to post some information I found about college for individuals with disabilities. Coming soon.......
Blessings:)
Amy
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Team Hyndman January 2011
Hi all,
So much has happened in the past month, just since the first of the year. For some reason, I was still hanging on to being sick from the holidays and I never totally got better until this past week! I was on three different antibiotics in a row and then steroids, which seemed to finally do the trick although I hate the side effects. I was once on steroids (prednisone) for 6 months for a medical condition, and the side effects are no fun. Anyhow, I am finally better. Isabella is better this week but had a "virus" and was really sick for a week, now Nick seems to have it this week. Just typical winter stuff passing through I guess! As I'm writing this, Nick's feeling pretty bad, but I'm sure he'll be doing better in a few days. Like most people in our area and in several other states, we are in the midst of a snow storm and the kids had a "snow day" today and I would bet tomorrow too. For Nick, it's good he won't miss so much school for being sick, for Bella, it's just a lot of fun. We already baked cookies and brownies and I'm making home-made chicken noodle soup. YUM!!!!!
Nick got to wrestle a varsity match this past month and warm up with the team which was one of his goals and he was thrilled he got to do it. Everyone asks us why he doesn't wrestle varsity all of the time. He IS a varsity wrestler but his coach gets the fact that Nick wants to wrestle as much as he can. He, Greg, and Nick talked about it and they all agreed, including Nick, that Nick would get more opportunities, as a wrestler with cerebral palsy/a disability, to wrestle on JV. For varsity, the "best" wrestler for each weight class gets to wrestle at the match for that week and they have wrestle-offs at practice to determine this. The fact is, that due to Nick's disability, he isn't able to compete at the level of many of the other wrestlers. So, they've included him in the warm ups, and other things, but he's wrestled JV so he CAN wrestle more. We really respect his coach for doing this and for talking to Greg and Nick about it initially. The match was short and Nick technically lost, but he was SO happy, and he did win in a way because he accomplished his goal and is "out there" just "doing it" in the first place.
This past week, we had Nick's senior night at a wrestling match where he was introduced before the match, and we got to escort him out there. So, Greg and I escorted him. We also had Isabella because, of course, we're a "team", and we had my Dad, PaPa Jagel, do it because Nick wouldn't be able to even wrestle if it wasn't for my Dad's help. Greg helps Nick on his days off and my Dad does it every single other day Greg works. Nick needs help after school before practice changing and taking his meds, etc., then during and after practice, then with bathing afterwards. Of course, Nick prefers a "guy" help him with bathing and dressing, etc. and a woman can 't go into the locker room with him, so I can't help him. Of course, I still give Nick a bath/shower and shave him from time to time when he needs it, but if a "male" is available (ie: his Dad or PaPa), he prefers that. So, Nick had a whole team of people escorting him on senior night and that is why!
Nick was asked to attend the State Wrestling Championships in March (actually, we were all invited to go with Nick, so all 4 of us are going) in Columbus to be interviewed for the OHSAA (Ohio High School Athletic Association, www.ohsaa.org ) Magazine. We're really looking forward to a visit to Columbus again. We're also getting ready for the end of the season, team dinner, etc. Nick's excited because his cousin, Theo, is in Jr. High and started wrestling for his school this year and we think he's going to be really good at it. So, when they get together, they an talk wrestling, etc. Theo is his first year of Jr. High but he and Nick are good buddies (cousins) and have a BLAST when they hang out together. Theo is very kind too and he helps Nick brush his teeth, wash his face, take his meds when he spends the night with Theo, which we think is really sweet. (Thanks Theo!)
FINALLY, Nick applied to three colleges/universities, all local, a couple of weeks ago and he was accepted/admitted to all three! He also was told by a counselor at school that he won a board of trustees academic achievement scholarship to one of those colleges. We are now in the process of applying for more scholarships but this was one that he won. Yeah Nick:) So, he has to make a decision. He hasn't made a definitive decision yet, although he's leaning in one direction, and when he decides, we'll let you know! We had so many people telling us we were "late" in getting in the college applications and we applied and got all of our responses within 2 weeks, so it worked out well for us.
Nick and Bella got their grade cards a few weeks ago and they got all A's and B's. We're so proud of both of them. Bella has been busy with dance and violin and school stuff. She is a first grade helper now at school. She helps one of the first grade classes get their book-bags/coats ready and leads them out to the bus. It's so cute, one kid said to her, "excuse me miss, can you help me with my backpack?" to Bella. She thinks the kids are so cute and she loves it because she gets to help in her first grade teacher's class. The teacher told her she can get a piece of candy every day and she doesn't have to ask, which to Bella is a bonus of course! She's such a sweet person, kind, compassionate, and helpful. She LOVES to help people and animals, which she does without being asked and does not do it for reward, which is cool. It's her personality for sure but I also believe that having a sibling with a disability has helped her with compassion and empathy for others.
So we'll (Nick and I) be working on applying for more scholarships, he'll be working hard in his last semester of high school (he's taking anatomy, which I took my last year of HS!), we'll be getting his graduation announcements in March or April. His senior exams are May 24th and 25th, followed by his senior picnic and video, then he graduates on May 29th, 2011 at the Stranahan. May 29th is also Greg's birthday so we are planning to go to a nice dinner with family that evening to celebrate. We're taking a trip in June with our immediate family, we think to Hilton Head (we're working on securing the house this month-we've changed the destination several times.....), and then on August 20th, 2011, we're having an 18th birthday party/graduation party for Nick at a nature preserve here in Perrysburg. (he turns 18 August 18th) So, if you're reading this, save the date! (August 20th!)
That's it for now. It's enough, huh? It's all going by so fast and we're just trying to take in every second of it and enjoy it!
Blessings:)
Amy
So much has happened in the past month, just since the first of the year. For some reason, I was still hanging on to being sick from the holidays and I never totally got better until this past week! I was on three different antibiotics in a row and then steroids, which seemed to finally do the trick although I hate the side effects. I was once on steroids (prednisone) for 6 months for a medical condition, and the side effects are no fun. Anyhow, I am finally better. Isabella is better this week but had a "virus" and was really sick for a week, now Nick seems to have it this week. Just typical winter stuff passing through I guess! As I'm writing this, Nick's feeling pretty bad, but I'm sure he'll be doing better in a few days. Like most people in our area and in several other states, we are in the midst of a snow storm and the kids had a "snow day" today and I would bet tomorrow too. For Nick, it's good he won't miss so much school for being sick, for Bella, it's just a lot of fun. We already baked cookies and brownies and I'm making home-made chicken noodle soup. YUM!!!!!
Nick got to wrestle a varsity match this past month and warm up with the team which was one of his goals and he was thrilled he got to do it. Everyone asks us why he doesn't wrestle varsity all of the time. He IS a varsity wrestler but his coach gets the fact that Nick wants to wrestle as much as he can. He, Greg, and Nick talked about it and they all agreed, including Nick, that Nick would get more opportunities, as a wrestler with cerebral palsy/a disability, to wrestle on JV. For varsity, the "best" wrestler for each weight class gets to wrestle at the match for that week and they have wrestle-offs at practice to determine this. The fact is, that due to Nick's disability, he isn't able to compete at the level of many of the other wrestlers. So, they've included him in the warm ups, and other things, but he's wrestled JV so he CAN wrestle more. We really respect his coach for doing this and for talking to Greg and Nick about it initially. The match was short and Nick technically lost, but he was SO happy, and he did win in a way because he accomplished his goal and is "out there" just "doing it" in the first place.
This past week, we had Nick's senior night at a wrestling match where he was introduced before the match, and we got to escort him out there. So, Greg and I escorted him. We also had Isabella because, of course, we're a "team", and we had my Dad, PaPa Jagel, do it because Nick wouldn't be able to even wrestle if it wasn't for my Dad's help. Greg helps Nick on his days off and my Dad does it every single other day Greg works. Nick needs help after school before practice changing and taking his meds, etc., then during and after practice, then with bathing afterwards. Of course, Nick prefers a "guy" help him with bathing and dressing, etc. and a woman can 't go into the locker room with him, so I can't help him. Of course, I still give Nick a bath/shower and shave him from time to time when he needs it, but if a "male" is available (ie: his Dad or PaPa), he prefers that. So, Nick had a whole team of people escorting him on senior night and that is why!
Nick was asked to attend the State Wrestling Championships in March (actually, we were all invited to go with Nick, so all 4 of us are going) in Columbus to be interviewed for the OHSAA (Ohio High School Athletic Association, www.ohsaa.org ) Magazine. We're really looking forward to a visit to Columbus again. We're also getting ready for the end of the season, team dinner, etc. Nick's excited because his cousin, Theo, is in Jr. High and started wrestling for his school this year and we think he's going to be really good at it. So, when they get together, they an talk wrestling, etc. Theo is his first year of Jr. High but he and Nick are good buddies (cousins) and have a BLAST when they hang out together. Theo is very kind too and he helps Nick brush his teeth, wash his face, take his meds when he spends the night with Theo, which we think is really sweet. (Thanks Theo!)
FINALLY, Nick applied to three colleges/universities, all local, a couple of weeks ago and he was accepted/admitted to all three! He also was told by a counselor at school that he won a board of trustees academic achievement scholarship to one of those colleges. We are now in the process of applying for more scholarships but this was one that he won. Yeah Nick:) So, he has to make a decision. He hasn't made a definitive decision yet, although he's leaning in one direction, and when he decides, we'll let you know! We had so many people telling us we were "late" in getting in the college applications and we applied and got all of our responses within 2 weeks, so it worked out well for us.
Nick and Bella got their grade cards a few weeks ago and they got all A's and B's. We're so proud of both of them. Bella has been busy with dance and violin and school stuff. She is a first grade helper now at school. She helps one of the first grade classes get their book-bags/coats ready and leads them out to the bus. It's so cute, one kid said to her, "excuse me miss, can you help me with my backpack?" to Bella. She thinks the kids are so cute and she loves it because she gets to help in her first grade teacher's class. The teacher told her she can get a piece of candy every day and she doesn't have to ask, which to Bella is a bonus of course! She's such a sweet person, kind, compassionate, and helpful. She LOVES to help people and animals, which she does without being asked and does not do it for reward, which is cool. It's her personality for sure but I also believe that having a sibling with a disability has helped her with compassion and empathy for others.
So we'll (Nick and I) be working on applying for more scholarships, he'll be working hard in his last semester of high school (he's taking anatomy, which I took my last year of HS!), we'll be getting his graduation announcements in March or April. His senior exams are May 24th and 25th, followed by his senior picnic and video, then he graduates on May 29th, 2011 at the Stranahan. May 29th is also Greg's birthday so we are planning to go to a nice dinner with family that evening to celebrate. We're taking a trip in June with our immediate family, we think to Hilton Head (we're working on securing the house this month-we've changed the destination several times.....), and then on August 20th, 2011, we're having an 18th birthday party/graduation party for Nick at a nature preserve here in Perrysburg. (he turns 18 August 18th) So, if you're reading this, save the date! (August 20th!)
That's it for now. It's enough, huh? It's all going by so fast and we're just trying to take in every second of it and enjoy it!
Blessings:)
Amy
Taking A Much-Needed Break
Hi all,
I haven't updated the blog in awhile because I've been taking a much needed computer break, just checking e-mail on occasion, and spending some time in reflection as I like to do this time of the year. I love the computer and also at times, I don't, but I love what it CAN do for us and allow us to do. I am just one of those people that need to "unplug" once in a great while when I can. Not often, but just once in awhile. When we're on vacation or a break, I don't do ANYTHING computer-related and I don't use my cell phone or anything. I just love to spend time with my family and also a great book. That's just my thing and I realize not everyone has the same thoughts on that, which is fine/great. Do you know what happens when I do this from time to time? Nothing......I just "catch up" on my e-mails, messages when I'm back on and if it's an emergency, I figure most people know how to reach me at home.
Also, I was talking with my Mom about the blog and she shared something with me that I thought deserved some thought and reflection. My mom read my post about Christmas and what happened with Nick and some other family members, and our feelings about it, and she was a bit hurt by this. When I asked her why, she just felt first, that I should have talked to them about this before blogging about it. I explained to my mother that I HAVE talked to these family members about this issue in the past and yet, the issue still exists and is not resolved and they did not share our views on the situation with Nick. As for sharing this with my Mom and Dad, who were not involved in the comments on Christmas, I didn 't feel they should be involved. Secondly, my Mom was worried what others would think. I explained, it was NOT mt intent to hurt her or anyone, and that this blog is about our life, our family, and especially the issues that our family experiences as a result of Nick's disability. Anytime I blog, of course it is a form of "venting", sharing, telling, it's therapeutic in a way, and it's a picture of what is happening with us at any point in time. As I've said before, we've had friends who have had hurtful things said or "ignoring" by family members and we couldn't really relate. I've had families in my work that have shared these issues as well. So, I was thinking, "Oh, NOW I understand why they were so hurt", etc. "Now I get it". So I did share it. I'd do it again but I'd probably explain to my Mom what my intent was, because I do not write to hurt anyone in this blog in any way. I express our feelings and share what is going on with Team Hyndman, our family. I still hope to educate people, and meet others with similar issues, share information, etc. So, I had to reflect and check that my intentions for this blog were still on target and I feel they are. ALL families have issues, disagreements, happy/fun times, and hurts. It's the human nature of relationships. My feeling is that we exist to be in relationships and learn from our mistakes and keep trying to be the best human beings we can be at all times. I plan to keep learning new things and working on being the best person I can be until the day I leave this earth and I tell the kids this all of the time. I would think that most people understand this and if anyone did sit in judgement of our family, I'd have to ask them to examine their own family, relationships, and themselves first.
I want to continue writing on Cerebral Palsy Family with the same intentions I started with. It's a blog about our family intended for sharing, educating, reaching out, information/resources, ETC. Anytime I can improve something, I will. I truly enjoy blogging (writing in general) SO much. I appreciate anyone taking the time to read it or share it, I enjoy the comments, the e-mails I get, the letters, questions, and sharing from others. Just know if I don't post in a few weeks or so, I'm either just taking a break or there is something going on with the family, but I'll be back.
My next post.......updating what's been going on with Team Hyndman in the past several weeks....a lot!
Thanks and Blessings:)
Amy
I haven't updated the blog in awhile because I've been taking a much needed computer break, just checking e-mail on occasion, and spending some time in reflection as I like to do this time of the year. I love the computer and also at times, I don't, but I love what it CAN do for us and allow us to do. I am just one of those people that need to "unplug" once in a great while when I can. Not often, but just once in awhile. When we're on vacation or a break, I don't do ANYTHING computer-related and I don't use my cell phone or anything. I just love to spend time with my family and also a great book. That's just my thing and I realize not everyone has the same thoughts on that, which is fine/great. Do you know what happens when I do this from time to time? Nothing......I just "catch up" on my e-mails, messages when I'm back on and if it's an emergency, I figure most people know how to reach me at home.
Also, I was talking with my Mom about the blog and she shared something with me that I thought deserved some thought and reflection. My mom read my post about Christmas and what happened with Nick and some other family members, and our feelings about it, and she was a bit hurt by this. When I asked her why, she just felt first, that I should have talked to them about this before blogging about it. I explained to my mother that I HAVE talked to these family members about this issue in the past and yet, the issue still exists and is not resolved and they did not share our views on the situation with Nick. As for sharing this with my Mom and Dad, who were not involved in the comments on Christmas, I didn 't feel they should be involved. Secondly, my Mom was worried what others would think. I explained, it was NOT mt intent to hurt her or anyone, and that this blog is about our life, our family, and especially the issues that our family experiences as a result of Nick's disability. Anytime I blog, of course it is a form of "venting", sharing, telling, it's therapeutic in a way, and it's a picture of what is happening with us at any point in time. As I've said before, we've had friends who have had hurtful things said or "ignoring" by family members and we couldn't really relate. I've had families in my work that have shared these issues as well. So, I was thinking, "Oh, NOW I understand why they were so hurt", etc. "Now I get it". So I did share it. I'd do it again but I'd probably explain to my Mom what my intent was, because I do not write to hurt anyone in this blog in any way. I express our feelings and share what is going on with Team Hyndman, our family. I still hope to educate people, and meet others with similar issues, share information, etc. So, I had to reflect and check that my intentions for this blog were still on target and I feel they are. ALL families have issues, disagreements, happy/fun times, and hurts. It's the human nature of relationships. My feeling is that we exist to be in relationships and learn from our mistakes and keep trying to be the best human beings we can be at all times. I plan to keep learning new things and working on being the best person I can be until the day I leave this earth and I tell the kids this all of the time. I would think that most people understand this and if anyone did sit in judgement of our family, I'd have to ask them to examine their own family, relationships, and themselves first.
I want to continue writing on Cerebral Palsy Family with the same intentions I started with. It's a blog about our family intended for sharing, educating, reaching out, information/resources, ETC. Anytime I can improve something, I will. I truly enjoy blogging (writing in general) SO much. I appreciate anyone taking the time to read it or share it, I enjoy the comments, the e-mails I get, the letters, questions, and sharing from others. Just know if I don't post in a few weeks or so, I'm either just taking a break or there is something going on with the family, but I'll be back.
My next post.......updating what's been going on with Team Hyndman in the past several weeks....a lot!
Thanks and Blessings:)
Amy
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